Come As You Are

Boy, this book should be read by every man and woman. Is gives you a very interesting perspective. You are good as you are. You can learn a lot of things. There are a lot of things that can be done to make everything a lot better for yourself and you can teach others as well

I couldn't put it down, I read it in one day. If you're a survivor of SA or have religious trauma, or if you're even just curious if you're missing something, I recommend it highly. She writes in an informal tone, and makes a heavy subject feel a lot lighter. I think all women should read it, and if you're a man at least read chapter 6 bc it'll help dissolve any guilt towards things you can't control.

This book is very good. It is clear why Amazon rates it #1 in several of their (fine grained) categories. It is packed with truth to counteract the lies about sexuality rampant in our society. It is filled with approaches to improve one’s life. In the conclusion is this paragraph: “If you can remember even one of the ideas in this book—no two alike, brakes and accelerator, context, nonconcordant arousal, responsive desire, any of them—and use it to improve your relationship with your own sexuality, you’ll be helping me with that goal. And if you share any of these ideas with even one other person, you’ll be expanding the global space in which women can live with confidence and joy.” It also continually reminds us: “You are Normal.”

I love this book. It teaches you a lot of things as an individual or a partner and contradicts modern science in a way that makes complete sense. This book will educate you in ways of confidence, pleasure, and understanding the deep root behind a lot of pyschological things about your body and mind. The only thing i did not like within thebook itself is that the author will write about a specific topic and the tell you all throughout thebook that they will speak about it later. I wish they would just speak the whole thing then and there instead of redirecting you to different chapters. Other than that, excellent book.

While the book is written by a woman for women, it is so much more than that. While the book is helping women understand their sexuality, it is so much more than that. It is a book written for men to better understand their female partner. It is a book to help individuals comprehend and feel what is blocking them from pleasure. It is a book that is, in my opinion, as a licensed therapist (who is male), one of the best books about sexuality to date. My only complaint is that the author has not written a book regarding male sexuality, ED, trauma, and blocks men have for emotional intimacy within and outside of his sexuality.

Really enjoyed the book. As a guy reading it I felt like it was insightful and I took some good lessons from it.

Well written. Comprehensive.

My wife has dealt with some trauma from when she was young and had some different/odd views on sex. She was never an instigator and was always worried about her body or performance which after years I could always tell when she was not always there. I never could get her to just let go. I bough a book for me to read and after doing some research I bought this book for her to read. When I talked to her about it she was reluctant to read it so I sat down and read some things that I felt would help her and then brought up what I'd read in the book one night. It peaked her interest so I left the book lying on the coffee table. A few days later I noticed it missing. A few days after that, which was about 2 months ago our sex life which was already good went out of site. We're both 46. She has spent more money in 2 months than the last 20 yrs on toys, furniture, outfits, lingerie, converted a spare bedroom into a play room and initiates about half the time. Everything about our relationship has improved. I haven't read it but I dam sure recommend it.