Our Q and A a Day: 3-Year Journal for 2 People

This journal is such a thoughtful gift for a couple. I can't stress enough how lovely it is! I was given one myself as a gift and I loved the idea of it so much that I bought one for a friend as part of a wedding gift, and it went very down well. It's a great way to document a couple's feelings over the years and a lovely keepsake to look back on and particularly fun to see how the answers change over time. I also think it's a really endearing way to encourage communication on topics you might not otherwise discuss in every-day conversations. The cover design is appealing and refreshing in that it's relatively gender neutral, the paper is good quality, and even the font is appealing and suited to the tone of the book. The questions are varied and give you food for thought, including: 'If you could give your partner a superpower, what would it be?', 'Being with you feels like...', 'What is your partner an expert on?', 'Name one single friend you'd love to set up on a blind date'. So far, I've personally found it a little difficult to keep up with being in a long-distance relationship Mon-Fri but am determined to get back into it soon!

I bought myself the individual 5 year journal and bought this for my recently married friend who is expecting her first child. I think it is a lovely way to keep track of your ideas and feelings over time, even more so during such a life changing moment. The book feels like good quality, with sturdy feeling paper. This makes a really lovely grift for newly weds.

This is such a cute little diary, I bought it for my boyfriend as a anniversary gift and it has been great so far and made us get to know each others even better. Some questions are little silly and then there are also more serious questions. The pages are very good quality too and it's just such a lovely diary. Will be buying more as gifts.

I bought this for our anniversary and my husband and I have been filling this out every night sense. Only took a star off because sometimes the questions are a bit vague, so we might interpret them differently...but that's become part of the conversation as well. It's a nice way for us to check in with each other at the end of the day and we like to try and guess what the question will be. I think further down the line it'll be interesting to see where our mindset was (especially seeing lockdown/covid from *hopefully* the past). Would definitely recommend to couples that live together.

Bought this for me and my boyfriend when we were only together a month or so, but I'm glad I bought it. We fill it out on days we're together and take it on holiday with us too. Both very excited to fill it out and look back on our growth together, both as individuals and as a couple. 365 questions for 3 years; some are silly and playful, others require much more thought, questions about you as an individual, as a couple and about your partner (e.g. you make me smile when you _____".

Love this book. It was a bit smaller than I imagined. But the contents are great and me and my boyfriend thoroughly enjoy filling it in and reading each other's thoughts and entries. Each day is separated for 3 different years and you each get 3 lines of space to write a response to that says question. Some of the questions so far have included 'what item of your partners would you like to throw out' 'what's the nicest compliment you've received lately' 'who's your celebrity crush?' All create some interesting responses to say the least!

Love this journal! Some questions are easy (how much sleep did you get last night?) but some are really tough and make you think (what would you like to master? what's the biggest lesson you've learned this year?) and there are loads that prompt reflection on the relationship, as well as some fairly in-depth conversations. My partner and I started this journal on the 1st Jan and are looking forward to filling it out - it's a great activity to prompt conversation, self-discovery and reflection every day.

Yea, I like the idea of this more than the actual questions in it. I could think of a lot funnier or more important questions to ask than they actually do. Still, I gave this to my best friend at her wedding because...I like the idea and it still does make a lovely gift.

EXPECTATIONS: Moderate I bought this as a last minute gift for my boyfriend for Valentine's Day. I am an artist and a writer who enjoys documentation of all forms, and I thought that this would be a fun little exercise to do every once in awhile. REALITY: Blown away Only two weeks in, this journal has become much more than "a fun little exercise." It is something that I look forward to doing every morning when I wake up. It has become a part of my daily routine, and I can't wait to answer the questions day after day. My boyfriend most definitely feels the same way. Not only is it fun, this journal has been the beginning of a lot of great conversations in our relationship. Even the silliest questions, (ie "What's the softest thing you are wearing today?") are a cause for self reflection and discussion, since I get to wear my PJs (I work from home), and my boyfriend's softest thing are his socks (poor sucker goes into a corporate office day after day). More serious questions have led to conversations about race (we are an interracial couple), culture, body image, etc. I am truly looking forward to seeing how our answers change over the years, and I can't wait to see all of the questions that are in store for us for the upcoming year! OTHER OBSERVATIONS: Bookmark: It has been mentioned in another review, but I really wish there was a bookmark in the journal, since it is large. I taped a piece of yarn to the spine, and we are using that as a bookmark. It works just fine, but aesthetically, an actual bookmark would have been helpful. Size: It is a small (7x5.5 inches), thick (1 inch) book, which keeps the answers short and concise. This is important, because I don't feel pressure to cultivate a long, articulate answer when I pick up the journal. Because of the thickness, the book doesn't sit open very well, but it as a soft, flexible spine, which is nice. Design: As an artist, design is important for me, and this book sits out on our coffee table all the time. I love how it looks, and I love the simple but elegant layout of the pages. SAMPLE QUESTIONS: For anyone who wants more sample questions in determining if this journal is right for you, here are some I found while randomly flipping through the journal: "If you could give your partner a superpower, what would it be?" "What's the most spontaneous thing you did this week?" "How have you grown this year?" "I've had quite enough of ________." "What's one piece of encouragement your partner could use today?" FINAL THOUGHTS: This is a wonderful journal, a great addition to our daily routine, and a painless way to always be engaging in our relationship, finding out new things about each other, and getting an interesting perspective into each other's lives. I would recommend it to everyone. I seriously cannot think of any relationship that would not benefit from it.

This item is absolutely gorgeous. It's the perfect way to record our relationship, a little reminder every day to answer the questions. I look forward everyday to being able to answer the questions and I am always looking forward to see what my boyfriend's answers are, it brings us closer in little ways each day :) I highly recommend this book to any couple!

On aime beaucoup ! On rempli tous les soirs notre paragraphe, et jusqu'à présent les questions sont intéressantes. Amusant, et ce sera chouette de recommencer l'an prochain et de relire nos réponses !

Gifted it to a friend on her wedding. She personally called me later to tell they both liked it.

Lo pedí como regalo de aniversario, llegó a tiempo y en excelentes condiciones. La pasta tiene la textura como de la madera, lo cual lo hace más bonito, tiene una pregunta por día y tres espacios divididos en dos cada uno, así sólo pones el año y respondes la misma pregunta por tres años. Es perfecto, excelente idea, muy recomendado!