Dominatrix 101: The Good Girl's Quick Guide to Dominating Her Man Kindle Edition

This was perfect for a complete newbie like me. Very good suggestions for getting started and I liked the way she approached the subject.

This short introductory book by Rebecca Lawson for women on becoming the dominant figure in their relationships with their men was very informative and packed full of practical and useful information. I liked how she always emphasized sticking it out, practice, communication, and of course, safety, as she outlined various aspects of what a female domme would do to give their man the "full" package experience as she called it. This meant including lecturing, humiliating, bossing, controlling, and finally spanking. This is a voluntary review of this book.

Some good ideas but mainly filler.

Great book for beginners! Was easy to follow and lots of great tips! Will definitely recommend to any newcomers in the Dom community

Really not much info that isn't already known to most. No real help for the timid wife. Waste of $3.

I have decided to write this review as I read the book. I will provide my thoughts as I progress from chapter to chapter.To start, I am a polyamorous, kinky wife. My husband and boyfriend both want to be dominated. Both relationships are normal, natural and healthy. I bought this book to help me get a better idea on where to start. Three pages in the author states, "you will not read anything about having multiple partners or any other behavior that is destructive to relationships. . . . This book is for married couples, plain and simples."The author also states, many times, that most women do not feel dominant because it isn't the natural role of things. Although she has met "a few" with a "dominant gene." I find this to be sexist.In chapter four the author discusses her erotica on two full pages. Her examples include spanking and panties, warning against using a popular fetish, degradation. I have known many people into this fetish and who openly indulge in it. Her examples of humiliation are mild, despite the warning that they may be too extreme. I suppose if you are a complete newbie, cum eating may be extreme. But cum eating is as far as it goes.Likewise, her next chapter, "Punishments," is lacking. Most of it is writing assignments and the final two being chores and corner time with a chastity device on. Again, mild at best. Google provides better punishments and is free.Chapter 6 is completely dedicated to spanking. After some basic do's and don'ts, she goes over different implements you can use and different positions. Everything from a wooden spoon to a flogger. I will give props for the dice game mentioned at the end. But if you are part of any BDSM online community, you will probably already came across this basic idea. I do like the idea of picking the implement being a game.Chapter 7 is dedicated to anal and the author very briefly goes over anal play safety. Even being coy and saying "umm.... can get lost in there." This is a BDSM book, I feel that the lack of anal safety in this chapter is disappointing and irresponsible on behalf of the author.The final chapter, chapter 8 she says I hope this book helps you to help your husband's fantasy come true. Going back to the point she so badly wanted to make earlier about how most women don't naturally feel dominant.Oh! And if any damage is caused by spanking too hard with your wooden spoon, the publishers are not responsible.All in all, this book is for very, very, very basic beginners. If you have never asked your husband to do the dishes, this book would be a great start! But it is not for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community, as it is very husband/wife-centric and specifically states that other relationship dynamics are "destructive . . . . plain and simple."Have fun, you crazy kids....

My wife and I both liked this book. It is short and to the point, but full of helpful and relevantinformation. It is also quite realistic and not based in fantasy like so many otherbooks of this nature. We have read a lot of books on female domination, butthis one really spoke to us and was the closest to what we are looking for in ourown relationship.

It has good information, but is very brief. It's a good starting road map to point you in the direction of what to research, but the info is very basic. I know everyone is different, and it's all about communication with your partner, and this will give you things to talk about. Not much of a how-to book, though.